India At Paralympics: Believing in Yourself

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In the last installment of our Paralympics series, we delved deeper into the role that Motivation plays in helping Paralympians excel at their sports. The motivation to attain mastery in a sport and to achieve success remains a crucial factor in their realizing their sporting career. But have you ever wondered where this unwavering motivation, to keep going in spite of the hardships thrown at them by life, comes from? 

Trevor Jenifer, an American Paralympic Wheelchair Basketball Athlete says,  “For the entirety of my life, I’ve been stared at because I’ve been different. You know, kids have stared at me, parents have stared at me, and it’s just because I didn’t have any legs. And now we’re changing that perspective—you could stare at me, but now you’re staring at me because I’m a two-time Paralympic gold medalist, I’m a father, and I’m a full-time employee with the federal government. I want people to know that there’s life outside of my disability. I don’t let my disability identify who I am. All these other things do. So it’s not just about the sport—it’s outside of sport. We’re demolishing the stigmas that surround disability.”

When we read this statement, the question that pops up first in your mind is, how does one develop such a strong sense of identity even when one is deemed to be different from the rest of the world? This strong sense of identity comes from an equally strong sense of self worth and belief in one’s abilities. In psychological terms, we call it Self-Esteem. In simple words, Self-esteem is how you feel about yourself, and the value you place on yourself. It’s based on your beliefs and opinions about yourself. Self-Esteem is a crucial factor when it comes to sport as it has an impact on the athletes confidence, their performance, their body image, their social relationship and on many such factors. 

Kapil Parmar, a visually challenged but tremendously cheerful Indian Paralympic medalist, experienced repeated abuses from his fellow villagers when he first started para-judo eight years ago, but it only fueled his drive to do something meaningful with his life. On September 4, Parmar, 24, became India’s first Paralympic medalist in judo, winning bronze in the men’s 60kg (J1) category at the Paris Games. “When I decided to start para judo in 2017, some people of my village taunted me about how I would play the sport as I can’t see but you always move ahead because of these taunts only,” Parmar told PTI in an interview.

Self-esteem starts developing from childhood and is affected by one’s upbringing, their life experiences, their achievements as well as their setbacks. One must always work hard to build a positive self image for themselves. Now this becomes even more challenging when one is born with a disability that hampers their daily functioning or when one loses one or more of their abilities to unfortunate incidents. Yet our Paralympians have proved to us that it might be tough but not impossible. When one strongly believes in their abilities and in the effort that they are putting in, in mastering a particular task, no disability can stop them from realizing their full potential. 

Let’s have a look at what learnings we can take away from our Paralympians and how we as athletes can enhance our self-esteem – 

• Prepare, Don’t Compare – You are your biggest competitor, and you must always strive to be better than yourself. By comparing ourselves with others we tend to reduce our self esteem by putting a negative filter on it.
• Recognise your Strengths – We all know what we are bad at, but it is rather more important that we know what we excel at. Our strengths are the steps that help us up the ladder of success. 
• Call it ‘Areas of Improvement’ rather than ‘Weaknesses’ – Our own mindset plays a role in determining whether we get better or stay stagnant. When you believe that you can always improve upon a particular aspect, growth is bound to happen.
• Set Realistic Goals – Dream Big, but when you prepare a roadmap to achieve those goals, set targets which are realistic and achievable in your current time frame. 
• Use Positive Self- Talk – Make a list of positive self-statements and read them to yourself every morning and night, or everytime you feel low on motivation.
• Solve the Problem – When a problem situation arises think, “How can I make it better?” Or “How can I contribute towards solving this problem?” rather than feeling sad about why it happened to you.

Self-esteem is an integral part of one’s identity, and athletes must take special care that they do not let their self-esteem go down, even in the face of setbacks. It is in those difficult moments that we need it the most. All individuals are different and unique in some way or the other, however, it is up to us how we make sense of our identity. Just like our Paralympians, we need to hold our heads high as we face the challenges that come. 

To learn from our Paralympians and get more glimpses of their journey, follow our blog series India at Paralympics! 

Rasika Kalgutkar, Sports Psychologist, Mindsports

India at Paralympics 2024 : Motivation

admin October 22, 2024 0 Comments

In the first part of our Paralympics series, we reflected on India at the Paris Paralympic Games and its revelation of resilience – the ability to bounce back from setbacks. As much as resilience helps athletes overcome their challenges, motivation also acts as a fuel to keep pushing forward consistently. It is the drive that keeps them going to reach their highest potential. As Canada’s Para-canoeist Brianna Hennessy
has profoundly put:
“The Paralympics means so much more because everyone here has a million reasons to give up, and we’ve all chosen to just go on… It’s a bigger picture than the medals, it’s a bigger picture than our country’s flag. It’s all of us coming together on that world stage and representing something greater than ourselves.” – Brianna Hennessy (Para-canoeist)
This quote strongly expresses the motivation of para-athletes and how it’s not just about personal or national glory but also about representing a shared human spirit that inspires millions. It is the drive that keeps them going beyond the limits set by others, and even at times, the limits set by themselves. In this blog, let’s explore the drive that keeps them going – what we commonly call ‘Motivation’.
Motivation is the drive to participate and persist in a particular activity. It is a factor that can be improved and developed through various techniques and strategies. However, it becomes important to identify the root source of motivation for any athlete. Playing a sport to win medals, to win scholarships, to stay fit, to enjoy the sporting experience are some of the sources of motivation for athletes. Like any other athlete,
our Indian para-athletes also are motivated by a variety of factors. Mariyappan Thangavelu, who recently won a bronze medal at the Paris Paralympics 2024 has often spoken about how he could support his family financially through para-sports. Raised in poverty, his childhood experiences motivated him to uplift his family despite the limited sources. His mother, a vegetable seller, has been his source of motivation and inspiration.
Manasi Joshi, who lost her leg in 2011 due to a road accident. During her rehabilitation period, she found her passion for badminton. She has often spoken about breaking barriers with regards to how society views people with disabilities. She believes that accepting challenges and having a strong self-belief are some of the motivating factors that drive her to work for inclusivity and empowerment through sport.
Bringing a change in societal views by redefining what it means to live with a disability, Manasi has a deeper motivational source in her sporting career.

Navdeep Singh who narrowly missed out the podium finish at the Tokyo Paralympics 2020, made a strong comeback by winning a Gold at the Paris Games.

Although he was facing challenges, his experience in Tokyo became a turning point as well as a fueling factor to prove his true potential. He channeled his setbacks into motivation to achieve greater heights.
Thus, our para-athletes have a purpose that fuels their motivation to achieve their goals. Drawing inspiration from them, let’s explore how athletes can work on their motivation levels by using certain techniques and strategies :

● Identify your purpose – Having a purpose that is beyond winning medals or recognition helps sustain motivation. This could be a deeper purpose such as contributing to your country’s success, overcoming societal barriers etc. During tough times, such deep purposes help athletes remain focused and
motivated.
● Set clear, achievable goals – Break down your long-term goals into smaller, manageable goals which helps create a sense of accomplishment thereby improving your motivation levels.
● Review your progress – Maintain a log of your daily tasks and track your progress throughout. This can be a great motivator along with giving you a sense of fulfillment.
● Use Mental Imagery – Visualizing helps block your distractions and stay focused on your performance thereby motivating you to give your best.
● Feedback – Ask for feedback from your coaches and support staff members. This will help you get a better understanding of how much you have progressed and where your efforts need to be exerted.
Thus, by identifying your purpose, setting achievable goals, reviewing progress, utilizing mental imagery, and seeking feedback, athletes can cultivate motivation and reach their potential. The remarkable stories of our para-athletes remind us that motivation is an essential factor for success.

As we have explored resilience and motivation pertaining to Paris Paralympics 2024, we will tune into more such mental factors. Keep following our blog series “India at Paralympics 2024” for more updates.

Kiran Salunkhe, Sports Psychologist, Mindsports

India at Paralympics 2024: Biggest Lesson in Resilience

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A young boy of 23, who was having fun with his friends at his aunt’s house, was struck by a tragedy that left him paralyzed from waist down. Dharambir Nain, the gold medal winner of men’s club throw F51 event at the Paris Paralympics 2024,  hit the rocks while diving in a river near his aunt’s house, this incident left him paralyzed from waist down and bed ridden for almost a year. His father had passed away in 2011, after that this incident in 2012 left him completely shattered. From being bed ridden to winning a Gold at the Paralympics, what would have been the journey of this man? A journey that no able bodied person can imagine. 

The Paris Paralympics 2024 was full of not just one such story but 84 stories of grit and resilience. India competed at the 2024 Summer Paralympics in Paris from 28 August to 8 September 2024. We made our official debut at the 1968 Summer Paralympics and have appeared in every edition of the Summer Paralympics since 1984. This was India’s 13th appearance at the Summer Paralympics, and we sent a strong contingent of 84 athletes. The Paris edition turned out to be the most successful campaign yet as we won 29 medals, surpassing the tally of 19 at the Tokyo Olympics. Avani Lekhara was the first to open up the tally with a gold medal along with Mona Agarwal winning the bronze in the women’s 10m rifle event. Following them Kumar Nitesh, Pramod Bhagat, Sumit Antil and others also won Golds for India in their respective events. Many other athletes like Suhas Yathiraj, Nishad Kumar, Navdeep, Praveen Kumar, Marriappan Thangavelu, Preethi Pal and many more, won silver and bronze medals in their respective sports. 

These Paralympians have shown some of the greatest qualities in terms of Mental Toughness. In this blog, we focus on one of them which is Resilience. 

Each of the para athletes have gone through life shattering events in their lives. Some were born with unfortunate defects in their bodies and some have faced terrible accidents where they have lost their limbs or their mobility. However, they didn’t let their disabilities define themselves. One such example is Men’s Para Javelin Thrower Ajeet Singh. In 2017, Ajeet’s life changed dramatically when he got involved in a fatal train accident. While attempting to prevent his best friend from falling off the train, Ajeet became entangled in the wheels, resulting in the amputation of his left arm below the elbow. Despite this life-changing experience, Ajeet refused to let it shape his destiny. Four months following his recovery, he returned to training, focusing his emphasis on athletics. These athletes have strived hard to create a place for themselves in a world that does not very well understand them, which is only possible if one is highly resilient. Resilience is the psychological quality that allows some people to be knocked down by the adversities of life and come back at least as strong as before. Rather than letting difficulties, traumatic events, or failure overcome them and drain their resolve, highly resilient people find a way to change course, emotionally heal, and continue moving toward their goals. This sounds easier in words than done. 

Let us understand what are the characteristics of highly resilient people – 

• Awareness: They are aware of their emotional reactions, the situations they are in, and the behavior of others around them. 
• Problem solving: They look for solutions to problems instead of ruminating why something happened, and can identify the correct issue and create a solution. 
• Flexibility: They are adaptable and can respond to adversity or life crises. They may even use difficult events as an opportunity to try new things. 
• Positivity: They have a disposition to view the present or future positively and confidently.

As we reflect back on the Paralympic Games, these characteristics have been much evidently seen amongst our athletes. All eyes were set on Sheetal Devi, India’s para-archer who competes with her feet, hoping to win her first ever Paralympic medal at the Games this year. Whilst handling the global pressure, she finished at 9th position at the individual event. However, she came back stronger at the mixed team event by winning a Bronze medal, creating history for India with its first ever Paralympic medal in archery. Resilience can also be seen in the form of maintaining a legacy. It’s about overcoming challenges and maintaining a drive to win on a consistent basis. Avani Lekhara, India’s first female Gold medalist has proved this right by successfully defending her title at the Paris Games. 

Thus, whether it’s the pressure arising from injury or from defending a title, resilience becomes an important factor to help athletes focus on the right things. The good news is resilience can be built, it can be enhanced by using certain mental training strategies. It helps athletes bounce back stronger, but also to maintain their peak performance consistently. However, Resilience is not only limited to sports, it is a quality that helps athletes face the challenges in life as well. 

In this month’s blog, we explore the quality of resilience demonstrated by our athletes at the Paralympic Games 2024. However, resilience is not the only deal, there is a lot to learn from these athletes and their lives. In upcoming blogs, we will explore more qualities and life lessons that can be learnt from our Paralympians! Keep following “India at Paralympics” for more!

Rasika Kalgutkar, Sports Psychologist, Mindsports

Kiran Salunkhe, Sports Psychologist, Mindsports

Conquering Fear: The Unseen Battle in Sports

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In the world of sports, where physical prowess, skill, and determination often take the spotlight, there exists an unseen adversary that challenges even the greatest athletes – fear. The fear of failure, of letting down teammates and fans, or the fear of injury can haunt athletes and impact their performance on the field. Today, let’s delve into the realm of fear in sports, exploring its nuances and discussing how an athlete can understand and manage fear better. 

Fear is a natural human emotion, and athletes are not exempt from its grip. It can manifest in various ways, from pre-game jitters to the fear of making a critical mistake during a crucial moment. Athletes may fear the expectations placed upon them or the uncertainty of the outcome. Recognizing and acknowledging these fears is the first step in addressing them and finding ways to overcome them.

Let’s take an example of Michael Jordan. Considered by many as the greatest basketball player of all time, Michael Jordan faced his fair share of fears throughout his illustrious career. While his on-court exploits are legendary, his journey wasn’t without its moments of doubt and anxiety. One particular instance that stands out is the 1997 NBA Finals, often referred to as the “Flu Game.” In Game 5 of the finals between the Chicago Bulls and the Utah Jazz, Jordan was visibly ill, battling flu-like symptoms. The pressure was immense, with the series tied 2-2, and the Bulls needed a win to gain the upper hand. Jordan, weakened and fatigued, pushed through the fear of physical limitations and delivered a performance for the ages. He scored 38 points, leading the Bulls to a crucial victory. Michael Jordan’s Mental Toughness had helped him conquer fear. What allowed Jordan to overcome his fear in that critical moment was his unparalleled mental toughness. His ability to focus on the task at hand, block out external pressures, and channel his energy into the game showcased the mindset of a true champion. Jordan’s unwavering commitment to excellence, tireless work ethic, and unshakable self-confidence played pivotal roles in his conquering of fear.

“Do I fear taking the last shot? No. I relish the opportunity.”

–Michael Jordan

The story of Michael Jordan serves as an inspiration for aspiring athletes facing their own fears. Fear manifests in many ways in sports. It can be the fear of failure, the paralyzing thought of dropping the baton or missing the goal. It can be the physical fear of heights, speeds, or the sheer power of an opponent. It can even be the fear of judgment, the anxiety of performing under the spotlight. But fear, like any opponent, can be managed. Here are some tips for athletes battling their fears:

• Identify your fears: Give your fear a name. Understanding what you’re afraid of is the first step to conquering it.
• Challenge negative thoughts: Replace self-doubt with positive affirmations. Focus on your strengths and past successes.
• Visualize success: See yourself performing flawlessly, feeling the adrenaline, and tasting victory.
• Practice mindfulness: Techniques like deep breathing can help you manage fear and stay present in the moment.
• Seek support: Talk to coaches, teammates, or even sports psychologists. Sharing your fears can be liberating and lead to valuable guidance.
• Celebrate small wins: Focus on the journey, not just the destination. Every successful practice, every conquered fear, is a step towards your ultimate goal.

It highlights the importance of mental resilience, self-belief, and a strong work ethic. Athletes can benefit from adopting strategies such as visualization, positive self-talk, and mindfulness to manage fear effectively.

Fear is an integral part of the human experience, and athletes are no exception. The ability to confront and conquer fear is what sets exceptional athletes apart. Michael Jordan’s Flu Game is a testament to the power of mental toughness and determination in the face of adversity. As athletes continue to push the boundaries of human achievement, the battle against fear will remain an intrinsic part of the journey to greatness.

Honey Jain,

Mindsports

LIFE LESSONS FROM SPORTS

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The movie Sachin – A Billon Dreams opens with Sachin echoing his father’s words, “Cricket is going to be just one chapter in your life, what will stay with you forever is the human in you, when people will tell me, more than a cricketer, you are a good human being, I will be happier as a father.”

The God of Cricket turned 50 this year with 24 long sporting years behind him, and in these years, the man has stood out to the world for his attributes that go beyond cricket and the world of sports. His down to earth nature, his discipline, his dedication and his respect for the people, the game and country are unrivalled, and for everything the man gives the entire credit to two things – his upbringing and to the sport.

Why out of the blue speak about Sachin? What is it that always makes us think of that golden era? They say change is the only constant in life. All of us have seen huge changes in our lives in the past few years owing to the Pandemic, changes that will have long echoing effects on our lives, especially of the younger generation. For almost two years, with their schools closed, these younger ones were locked in their homes, forced to sit in front of talking screens, without any contact with the outer world. The effects of such a detachment are seen widely today. Learned experiences from the environment shape children’s lifetime behaviour and go a long in determining their success. School is the primary place to develop social competencies and life skills, such as self-confidence, friendships, empathy, participation, respect, gratitude, compassion, and responsibility, and this generation, nevertheless the smartest till date, is somewhere lacking these essential life skills.

But why are these life skills being talked about now? Why are they so important?

Any skill is an ability to carry out a particular activity, which can also be learnt. For example, the skill to bat or bowl in cricket or the skill to play a guitar. In our lives too, all of us need certain skills to live with as less difficulty as possible. By that logic, Life Skills are abilities that we can develop to live a good and fruitful life. Every moment during our lives, at times without even realizing it, we rely on things we’ve learned to help us manage our daily life and have an impact on our physical and emotional health. Be it going to school every day or giving exams or simply going on a vacation. Respect, Perseverance, Self-Esteem, Decision-Making are some examples of life skills we require in our day-to-day lives. Life Skills help us gain confidence in communication as well as in cooperative and teamwork skills, they also help us discover innovative ways of thinking and problem-solving, and teach us how to socialize, make new friends, and recognize the effect of one’s actions and behaviours. They give us the courage to face the struggle in order to achieve our goals and the strength to deal with any kind of circumstance that comes our way.

All said and done, how do we really inculcate these skills in our kids? The kids today are busier than the adults. A lot of schools include a life skills education module, but can we really learn these hands-on skills from reading the texts? Life Skills are not learnt from textbooks, they are learnt on the field. So, what do we do? There is a simple answer…Sports. Having been an athlete myself and as a psychologist, I feel Sports are one of the best ways to teach children Life Skills. Sport need not always mean competition. Sports, at times, can just be fun and games. They are a good opportunity to teach children numerous abilities and soft skills. Through sports children are not only equipped to deal with challenges that might come their way, but also become prepared cognitively to learn, solve problems creatively and make decisions. The structure of sports is such that it inherently teaches children values that are essential throughout life. For instance, attending regular practice sessions, following the drills, keeping up with your training routines, habituates children to managing their time appropriately and builds a foundation for self-discipline. Another excellent example is the rule of shaking hands with your opponents at the end of every match, no matter the result. This simple gesture, so subtly and aptly, instils the value of respect in these young minds that it is bound to reflect in their lives outside of sport too. The best lesson I learned from sports was of resilience, no matter how bad the failure was, there is always a new day which you can make the best of, and it has helped me keep going in toughest of the times throughout my life.

Learning can happen at any age, however, Late Childhood or the Pre-teen years of a child are considered to be very crucial for their overall development. This is a phase of their Physical, Cognitive and Social growth. It’s the beginning of them becoming independent individuals, for e.g., They start dressing up by themselves, can use different objects independently, understand time and other events in context. This is a time when they need to be provided with the right direction and guidance as they begin to move away from the protective shells of home, to help them grow into better and well-adjusted individuals of the society, and as they gradually excel in the sport of their choice, they also build a positive sense of self, and ultimately a positive and resilient approach to life.

Sachin, a naughty, mischievous boy grows up to be called the God of Cricket. The Master Blaster while telling the anecdotes of his coaching days under Achrekar Sir, says that it was cricket that molded him into the focused and determined individual that he is today. Sachin is just one but the most apt example of how sports can shape your life beyond the competitive experiences. In a game sometimes you may win, sometimes may lose, but with sports you always win…at life.

Rasika Kalgutkar,

Sports Psychologist, Mindsports